Over the last
12 months I have researched bridesmaids’ dresses intently. I know exactly
what colour and length I want, but just needed to find something within a tight budget which would fit ladies from size 4-22... Not easy I tell you! I had loads of highly unhelpful suggestions such as certain high street shops which tailor for up to size 14, but no actual physical solutions... Then I decided to go shopping on the high street where a certain department store has an all singing all dancing coordinating bridal range!
So off we went to Meadowhall and saw V my sister in law for advice on our makeup (shes an awesome talented make up guru). Then next on the agenda was go try on dresses… with 20 minutes to closing time I frog marched my girls through Meadowhall at 08:40pm on a Monday night, occasionally glancing at my chief girl (akaThe Wife) in-case she had an allergic reaction to her foundation and ended up looking like a puffer fish. We swept through aforementioned high street shop to the bridal section grabbed whatever we could in the right size, (colour not an issue, as they don’t have the right colour in store anyway) and bolted for the changing rooms. Two or three dress changes in 15 minutes and they stand there looking all smart and elegant in their multicoloured dresses... NOT! they were are all 2ft too long, too tight on the hips, hung off the bust, and generally were a weird shape!…. Who do they make them for? Pole dancing giants? Anorexic stilt walkers!? The Gruffalo's beanpole sister?
I have bought many a formal dress from high street shops without too many issues. So why was the bridal range absolutely well and truly geared out with anti-fit?
Cue stress out,
Cue nasty shop lady who unceremoniously turfed us out and escorted us off the premises, (shame on you nasty unsmiling mean shop lady – we still had 5 minutes to go!)
Cue mini strop,
Cue pi** poor service at a very popular fast food venue where the acne ridden kid serving me just lobbed my chicken sandwich on the tray and glared at me as if I ruined his life... I wan't Lovin It I tell you.
So off we went to Meadowhall and saw V my sister in law for advice on our makeup (shes an awesome talented make up guru). Then next on the agenda was go try on dresses… with 20 minutes to closing time I frog marched my girls through Meadowhall at 08:40pm on a Monday night, occasionally glancing at my chief girl (akaThe Wife) in-case she had an allergic reaction to her foundation and ended up looking like a puffer fish. We swept through aforementioned high street shop to the bridal section grabbed whatever we could in the right size, (colour not an issue, as they don’t have the right colour in store anyway) and bolted for the changing rooms. Two or three dress changes in 15 minutes and they stand there looking all smart and elegant in their multicoloured dresses... NOT! they were are all 2ft too long, too tight on the hips, hung off the bust, and generally were a weird shape!…. Who do they make them for? Pole dancing giants? Anorexic stilt walkers!? The Gruffalo's beanpole sister?
I have bought many a formal dress from high street shops without too many issues. So why was the bridal range absolutely well and truly geared out with anti-fit?
Cue stress out,
Cue nasty shop lady who unceremoniously turfed us out and escorted us off the premises, (shame on you nasty unsmiling mean shop lady – we still had 5 minutes to go!)
Cue mini strop,
Cue pi** poor service at a very popular fast food venue where the acne ridden kid serving me just lobbed my chicken sandwich on the tray and glared at me as if I ruined his life... I wan't Lovin It I tell you.
Once I had
calmed down after the mean lady evicted us in a highly unceremonious manner from the shop, I went back to
the drawing board. I already had a second choice which was a dress by a
designer called Romantica of Devon, but was worried it would turn out pricey and I would end up blowing budgets on dresses... so I went on a mission to find a stockist who could give me straight answers and all the reassurance I could get! Two weeks later I had an appointment with a dress shop 25 mins drive from home
– result!
I decided not to take the whole troupe with me to the appointment as I considered the possibility of it being a waste of time dragging them all acrossYorkshire if it’s another wasted trip, so my
little sister, Mum and "The Wife" came in tow.
At the shop we stood and discussed themes, colours timescales etc etc whilst eyeing up the collection of dresses they had eager to get going. When we finally started looking at the various dresses they had to offer, something dawned on me – I liked them all! They were all gorgeous! And then they pulled out this gorgeous dress (I wont say anything about the style, but it looked stunning!) We chose a selection of 6 different styles and sentmy sister and "The Wife" off to
go get changed and do some modelling for me. My sister came out
wearing the one I was most keen on – it definitely did not disappoint! It was
stunning! Very simple in design, but also detailed enough to give it an edge –
I wanted it! So much that when the girls tried on the other dresses I just
wasn’t interested. They were dull, cheap looking or too over the top. I wanted
the first one!
One problem – it was in a complete different colour to our colour scheme – would it look as good in the colour we wanted? Only one way to find out....
Dresses – Booked!
I decided not to take the whole troupe with me to the appointment as I considered the possibility of it being a waste of time dragging them all across
At the shop we stood and discussed themes, colours timescales etc etc whilst eyeing up the collection of dresses they had eager to get going. When we finally started looking at the various dresses they had to offer, something dawned on me – I liked them all! They were all gorgeous! And then they pulled out this gorgeous dress (I wont say anything about the style, but it looked stunning!) We chose a selection of 6 different styles and sent
One problem – it was in a complete different colour to our colour scheme – would it look as good in the colour we wanted? Only one way to find out....
Dresses – Booked!
That was 6 months ago, the dresses have since arrived and have been waiting for us to go view them for approval. I had been having flaps about them since booking... will they look ok? will they fit right? will the girls like them? I couldn't resist. Our next appointment was 2 months away, so I visited the shop myself to go for a sneak preview... Yuss!! I loved them! Panic Over! and when the girls tried them on a month later I was thrilled at how fabulous they all looked.
One less thing to have to worry about... Now back to the cake issue!
Oh, and heres a sneak preview ;-) x